Your Problems Are Not The Problem
Your problems are not the problem.
I don’t pray for our kids to not have any problems. I pray for them to grow through them and learn from them. Problems are potential for growth and learning.
Problems stretch our hearts and capacity to feel - to feel the bad yes, but from the stretching towards the depths comes a residual stretching towards the heights - towards feeling the good.
We feel pain, but through that, when we process it with truth and grace we then can feel hope. Hope is a choice, a decision and an action long before it’s an emotion.
It’s not found in a prescriptive, 3 step simple solution. But it’s a dynamic flourishing born out of tenacious honesty.
You are bigger than your problems.
You are not powerless.
You are strong.
There is so much that is working together for your good all around you and within you.
This is your reality and it is bigger than your problems.
Expose and extinguish the lies that tell you otherwise. Resist the deception that your problems are the problem.
Magnify what is true. Stand firm. Know you are loved and the promise that all things are working together for good is not just some nice ideal - it's your reality right now.